Where NOT to Seek Notary Advice
When you’re staring at a stack of legal documents and a ticking deadline, it’s tempting to grab the quickest answer you can find. However, in the world of notarization, bad advice isn’t just unhelpful—it can lead to rejected documents, fraud, or even legal trouble for you and the notary.
To keep your paperwork pristine and your sanity intact, here are the places you should definitely avoid when seeking notary guidance.
1. The “Legal Expert” in the Social Media Comments
We’ve all seen them: the self-proclaimed experts in Facebook groups or Reddit threads. While community forums are great for finding a local recommendation, they are terrible for legal or procedural advice.
- The Risk: Notary laws vary wildly by state. What is legal in Florida might be a “notary no-no” in California.
- The Reality: These commenters rarely know your specific state’s statutes and often confuse “what worked for them once” with “what is legally required.”
2. The Document Drafter (Who Isn’t a Lawyer)
If you’re having a contract or deed drawn up by a non-attorney (like a real estate agent or a DIY document service), be wary if they start giving the notary instructions.
- The Conflict: Often, these parties want the process to be “fast” rather than “right.” They might pressure a notary to skip a step—like identifying a signer—just to close a deal.
- The Rule: A notary’s boss isn’t the person paying the fee; it’s the law of the state.
3. Your Best Friend’s Cousin (Who Used to be a Notary)
“Oh, my cousin was a notary back in 2012, they said you can just do [X].”
- The Problem: Notary laws are constantly evolving, especially with the rise of Remote Online Notarization (RON).
- The Catch: Procedures that were standard a decade ago might be obsolete or illegal today. Unless they have a current commission and a fresh handbook, their advice is a relic.
Where SHOULD you go instead?
If you’re feeling lost, stick to these three gold standards for information:
| Source | Best For… |
| Secretary of State Website | Finding the specific laws and handbooks for your state. |
| The National Notary Association (NNA) | General best practices and educational resources. |
| A Licensed Attorney | Deciding what document you need or how it should be worded. |
Pro-Tip: If a notary refuses to perform a signature because something “feels off,” they aren’t being difficult—they’re protecting you (and their commission) from potential fraud.
The Bottom Line: When it comes to notarization, the “path of least resistance” is often the path to a headache. Trust the professionals, consult the statutes, and leave the social media “experts” for the cat memes.


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