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Confessions of a Workaholic Notary

In the heart of Tri-Cities, the stars twinkled brightly over the Columbia River. I found myself caught in the relentless hustle of work. This is my tale of breaking free from the “always on” trap.  

Even during significant personal moments, I never allowed work to pause. At my daughter’s graduation party, I celebrated her achievements with family and friends. Meanwhile, I discreetly responded to a call from the title company that we needed to do a closing ASAP! Every ping of my phone brought a strange mix of pride in my commitment. I also felt gratitude for the opportunity. I believed being “always on” was the golden rule of success; my hard work set me apart.  

One evening, after a particularly exhausting signing, I sat in my car. The headlights cast shadows on the road ahead. As I stared into the darkness, I reflected on the toll this mentality was taking on my life. I was constantly present in my business, yet my personal life suffered.  

Through the lens of a notary and mentor, I began to grasp a profound truth. Without a closing time, your business isn’t a career. Instead, it becomes the “always on” trap. I had been like an artist confined to their studio. I realized I had been painting my life with work alone. I lost sight of the joy in my pursuits while chasing the next closing.  

That moment marked a turning point. I started redefining my boundaries, establishing clear work hours, and embracing downtime. I prioritized celebrating precious moments with my family, fully engaged and present. Work was no longer the master of my life. It became part of a broader tapestry filled with laughter, love, and fulfillment.  

Now, I share this journey with those I mentor. I teach them not just the intricacies of business but also the importance of balance. Success isn’t solely defined by hard work; it’s about creating space for life to flourish midst the hustle. My journey shifted from the chaos of endless obligations. It became one of harmony. That’s the lesson I aspire to impart.  

What will you do today to nurture your own journey toward balance and fulfillment?